EDITOR,
Am I the only one bothered by this? A group of San Lorenzo Valley High School parents want to support a “Safe and Sober” grad night, so they decide to raise money by having a wine and chocolate tasting. And this is not the first year they are raising money for an alcohol-free event by serving alcohol at the fundraiser.
As a parent of two former teenagers and a recovering alcoholic myself (I have over four years of sobriety now), this concerns me very much. Children (even teenagers) learn by what their parents do, not so much what they say. I think this fundraiser sends a poor message: We cannot have fun or raise money without alcohol.
I think, personally, the mountain air and redwood trees are more intoxicating, in a positive way, than any alcoholic drink, and surely there are many ways to raise money without setting a bad example for our children by serving alcohol.
There are places and events where serving alcohol to adults is appropriate and fine. But I don't think a fundraiser for a safe and sober grad night is one of those places.
Michele Price,
Boulder Creek and Palo Alto




Have a better idea? Want to help...encourage you to come to one of the Grad Night Meetings with your ideas and your time. We could use the help, not just the criticism.
You missed the point which is that IT IS A MIXED MESSAGE to hold an alcohol based fundraiser when at th
e same time you are trying to send an anti alcohol message to teengers..
Once again, congratulations to you for turning your life around but not only that, for such a sincere concern over the welfare of the students. After living in this lovely valley for 26 years, I have seen so many people care for those in need, and parents watch over & protect our children, and this is a very innovative way to keep them safe that night. This valley is full of wonderful, caring people who find a way to help their brothers and sisters in need. We are all very blessed to live here.
Don't like it, think it sends the wrong message? No problem, don't go. Please send a check though. I will. They could use the money to help the kids party dry.
I have been involved with many school fund-raisers, and believe me, it is hard to raise large sums.
In previous years, Grad Night’s principal fund-raiser has been a casino night, again, an event for adults only. Our main fund-raiser for the athletics program is Monday night Bingo. Adults only. Bake sales just don’t cut it.
I do know that alcohol abuse in teens is a big problem, and appreciate the irony you point out. However, the Wine and Chocolate event is an afternoon wine-tasting, not an invitation to excess.